Change, Manhood

Alpha-Moves That Will Shape Your Destiny & Alter The Course Of Your Life

“Nothing else in the world … not all the armies … is so powerful as an idea whose time has come.” – Victor Hugo

There’s a time a man makes decision that alters the course of his life. Regardless of how quick or easy he comes to that decision, if the decision is made in the right time for the right purpose, then nothing can come in-between—it’s a done deal.

There are moves that any man who aspires to become a true alpha-male has to make to reach his full alpha potential.

By moves, I mean the decisions he makes from a position of strength and the action taken upon such decisions.

The basic alpha-moves

In order to become a true alpha male of a unique kind, you have to cut loose all kinds of baggage.

Cutting loose things like:

  • bad habits
  • insecurities/negative self-image
  • and self-doubt

Those three things have a way of consuming most of your focus and your ability to perform at your utmost best.

Bad habits

Bad habits are called “bad” habits for a reason.

I don’t have to give you any explanation or tell you how to get rid of bad habits—that’s your responsibility.

Go figure…

Insecurities & negative self-image

Overcoming your insecurities and improving your self-image is an alpha-move that really matters. The man you are now, either developed from your insecurities or the negative self-image you have of yourself.

Your insecurities won’t just disappear, and you can’t instantly erase that negative image. It will take years of constant self-improvement, just like it took you years of self-sabotage to mold yourself into the insecure man you are today.

You have to bet on action, it’s the only way to get rid of your insecurities and erase the old negative image in your mind and replace it with the one you will have to paint with your actions.

Self-doubt

Self-doubt is caused by the lack of experience.

How could you ever know how good you are at something if you’ve never tried it long enough or approached it with the right mindset?

Do you think Michael Jackson became such an extraordinary singer and dancer just because he was “Michael Jackson?”

I don’t think so…

He was born screaming just like the rest of us, the only difference is that he took action and gained a lot of experience—regardless of the privileges and advantages he might have had.

He gained the confidence and belief in his craft through experience. I bet if he just sat around thinking about singing and dancing, he would have doubted he had what it takes to become a great singer and dancer.

You need two things to eliminate self-doubt:  A good teacher and the guts to practice what you learn.

There more you experiment, you gain experience, and the experience (proof that you can do it) will eliminate self-doubt.

Three things to limit in your lifestyle

  • friends
  • committed relationships
  • and social media

To be blunt, an alpha male has no friend or soul-mate, the only thing that qualifies as a true friend or soul-mate is his mission first—everything else comes after.

Should he feel the need for company: he will get a pet…

Friends

Friends are nothing but a resource. At some point you will need help and you will also have to help a friend here and there, and that’s what really matters in any friendship.

I look at friendship as something that should be approached purposefully. For example, if you are a musician and music is your purpose, it will benefit you to have friends who are also musicians.

You have to build friendships that contribute to your purpose.

An alpha-male’s mission is his way of fun and adventure because of all the experiences that unravel along in his pursuit.

Committed relationships

Committed relationships are the most limiting factor in a man’s life, and any man who truly desires to become a true alpha-male must distance himself from committing  to women or a woman—more especially in this age we live in.

You have to commit to one thing only: your mission.

I don’t condemn committed relationships, but there’s always a time and a place for one, but it is not in the early days of maturation as a man on a mission.

Exercise your options enough so that when you finally decide to settle down, you settle for the right reason after your mission 100% complete.

Before entering a long-relationship, you have to master yourself long enough that you never under any circumstance, compromise yourself or your purpose for the sake of pleasure or female companionship.

Social media

Social media is only good for business, other than that, it should be used as a means to contact all the people you need to get in contact with.

Social media is a monstrous source of destruction and a self-esteem killer.

It’s like having the ability to peek into other people’s lives—what everyone else is doing or pretends to be doing—without having to step outside your house.

Make that move and limit the use of social media and use all that time to push your purpose forward.

Cutting your losses

An aspiring alpha-male has to make this move whether he likes it or not: he has to end any relationship that puts him in a submissive position.

By ending such relationships, he holds himself accountable for allowing himself to fall in that position in the first place.

How you start a relationship is exactly how you will be treated in that relationship.

Anything you build with a beta mindset will produce beta results: mistreatment and disrespect.

Such relationships are hard to get in line or repair, and it would be foolish to even try. Making the move to cut all your losses and move forward is the only way to repair yourself, instead of the relationship.

People don’t have to be different to suit you, but you have to be different to suit yourself.

The ultimate alpha-move

“Knowledge can be conveyed, but not wisdom. It can be found, it can be lived, it is possible to be carried by it, miracles can be performed with it, but it cannot be expressed in words and taught.” – Herman Hesse

“Knowledge can be conveyed, but not wisdom. It can be found, it can be lived, it is possible to be carried by it, miracles can be performed with it, but it cannot be expressed in words and taught.” – Herman Hesse

There’s only one important book in life: “experience.”

Experience is life, but there’s one element that gives life to experience: action.

A man has to make the ultimate decision to be the alpha-male he yearns to become—regardless of loss and misfortune.

You will have to make that decision, act on it, and be prepared to live with it forever—regardless of what you gain or lose.

Be true to yourself and stick to your decisions.

When you know the truth, you can’t erase the truth, and you certainly undo your actions.

The truth stays and dies with you…

Acting from a position of strength

It is not what you know that counts, but it is what you do right with what you know when it counts.

Any alpha-move has to be made from a position of strength, not anger, not sympathy, and nor pity.

Often we make decisions that are influenced by emotions, instead of purpose.

Your purpose is your strength when it comes to making any decision. All your decisions should be guided by your purpose—not your feelings or pride.

Do whatever you can to overcome your insecurities, sew your emotional wounds so that they don’t surface in the heat of a life-altering decision.

No matter how hard you’ve got it, never make any important decision under the influence of emotions—somewhere down the line… you’ll regret it.

It’s wise to step outside of any situation that arouses emotions before you make a decision. Wait for three days and see if you still think that decision is the right move—guided by your purpose.

If it is, then proceed.

Lead yourself with purpose!

Until next time…

– Emmanuel Morewa

Did You Like The Post?

Join fellow readers of M.O.A who aspire to improve their lives, overcome fears, and turn their dreams into reality.

You are not obligated to subscribe or comment. Be genuine, and only enter your email and hit “Go” if you honestly appreciate the content and want to receive updates via email.

Thank you!

 

 

 

11 Comments

  1. Jay Clare

    Your work is so inspirational, and I never really gave a damn about this whole alpha/beta epidemic. But you defined it in a less complicated way, and now I understand that being an alpha male is has nothing to do with women but how a man lives his life and how much he values himself and his mission.

    Thanks!

    Reply
  2. Greg

    mate your site is really cool, but it has a poor Domain Authority
    sad truth is that sites with poor Domain Authority won’t rank high in Google and in result get very little of traffic
    I had the same problem in the past and my website didn’t rank high in Google
    I searched for a professional who would help me with it; found one guy who really helped me rank higher in Google and increase my Domain Authority to 58! I’m super happy with this score
    Contact him: http://janzac.com/contact-janzac/ (his prices are very reasonable for the service he provides)

    Reply

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Google Analytics Alternative